Well, it depends on the person who wants to know what it is. The answer for most of the questions can be put under the banner "it depends" for which happiness is not an exception.
Let us see some more of happiness.
What is happiness?
As said above, the answer varies from person to person and depending on the need.
Who defines it?
The person who wanted the answer for the definition of happiness should define it.
When is it defined?
It varies from time to time. The need of the hour defines the happiness. For a second, we may think we want to eat something and become happy and content. But it changes after that. We may want a good job with a defined salary, but after that, we do not stop there. The happiness and desire grows within each and everyone and that keeps changing the definition of happiness.
Why should happiness change?
Happiness should keep changing to keep the man going. "Change is the only permanent thing in life!" So, happiness should also keep changing in one's life! The change in the happiness keeps the man challenging as he changes it after every achievement.
A student wanted to pass the 5th grade and once he achieves it, he becomes happy and celebrates it. But, that is not the end as he changes it to the next level to become happy.
Do not postpone the happiness!
In general, the happiness is postponed and not felt. Even small victories should be celebrated. Otherwise, the new challenges are drawn but the achievement is never recognized and celebrated.
If a person keeps postponing the happiness, he will never realize it and more importantly feel it. Only if a person feel it, he can pass it on to others, which is the important factor.
What should one do to become happy?
Be a good human being! That means, be a good citizen, follow the rules of the country you reside, respect fellow human beings, do not hate anybody, love others and more importantly love yourself.
Follow your consciousness and do not go against it! It will not allow you to sleep if you go against it!
Enjoy small victories! Enjoy the nature! Enjoy the beauty! Enjoy the smile! Enjoy playing with kids!
Help ohters! If you cannot, do not disturb others! If you can afford, help in the education of the kids, help poor people!
More importantly, if you do not distinguish between happiness and sad and treat both as same, you will always be happy!
Be Happy and Enjoy the life! It is simple! It's the rule of the life!
Sunday, July 5, 2009
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